Coaches, gymnast and parents often see us as the "enemy". What they lose sight of (as we do) is that our job is to make the "game" fair for everyone. We are to evaluate the exercise as we see it and make the best decision we can based on our knowledge of written routines and deductions.

As judges, we must come to every meet prepared to judge our event. Personal study will take away the stain of unsure actions.

Confrontation with coaches can occur when our decisions do not seem appropriate to them and the inquiry does not result in a change of score. Anger and frustration may result in inappropriate behavior.

We need to keep in mind what is behind the coaches confrontation

1. The coach's mental state. As judges we must remember not to take things personally.


2. Coaches are pressured by the gymnast and parents to "find out what is going on".


3. The emotional attachment between the coach and gymnast, over time, has tightened their bond.


4. The perception of the person. The coach may see the gymnast has made major improvement in one area, but have failed to see mistakes in other areas.


5. Fatigue for all parties.


6. The encouragement of other coaches.


7. The failure of the judge by:
• Looking down while judging
• Lack of Knowledge of the event assigned
• Lack of experience

We need to understand each persons job at a meet and work together. As judges we must remember that we cannot control the situations that arise. We must take care of ourselves by being knowledgeable. We must not let the coaches behavior control our emotions. We must control and direct our thoughts and actions by planned behavior.

Recognize that confrontation is a power struggle. Determine ahead of time that you will not engage in a confrontation but state "I am sorry we do not agree" and walk away.